Feeling At An All Time Low Your Self Esteem Has Plummeted Cause Of Your Ex Breaking Up With You Now Honesty Do You Really Want Your Ex Back?
When your relationship ends and you break up for good, it can make your self esteem plummet to an all time low. If you and your ex have split then you might be questioning what your worth was in the relationship. And honesty do you really want your ex back.
Do not be too concerned, as this is very common for it to happen more often than not it is only for a short time.
After experiencing a break up, low self esteem is a minor hurdle that you do need to leave behind and what is more important that you regain your self confidence and do move on.
Listed below are 4 great tips that will help you regain your confidence.
Do some things for yourself that you would have overlooked while you were in the relationship. Why not try pampering yourself so you could start to feel good and you will start to look better. This will gradually translate into a more positive mindset about your self image, and like the law of attraction it will help you initiate conversation with others and vice vera.
Figure out what defines you as an individual. If when you were in the relationship and it happened to revolve around this and your ex, then there is some work ahead of you. By putting all the eggs into this one basket was not such a great idea, even though you were both happy together. You will need to locate the sweet spot within your career, hobby, volunteer work, or what ever it could possibly be that does give you your drive and passion back.
Enjoy your new found freedom. Think when was it that you found the time to see your friends without having the need to explain yourself and your intentions, or trying to work out the time constraints? Well see this as the opportunity where you can relax and just do things that do make you happy.
Set a personal goal.
Is there something important to you that you have wanted to do but kept it on the way back burner? Maybe you want a certain level of success in your career or with your finances? Or was there that trip or vacation that could be life changing for you and that was always what you dreamed about… So why not make it all happen for you.
Create your own happiness
This is what its all about, you do have to create your own happiness and your purpose more importantly you do not let others know about this which does include your ex. Work on this and I guarantee you will have some fun and in the process will be more confident about your future in general and about starting another relationship specifically. Or possibly you might start to think with your new gained self awareness and confidence, that you might give it a go with your ex again.
When your ex sees that you have become stronger and happier they might agree in getting back with you. At this particular point in time your ex might possibly start to feel left out. I hope these few quick tips will help you work on your self confidence and maybe you will decide to get back together with your ex after all.
If you want to work on that self esteem from your break up, I can help you. If you are thinking that you do want your ex back and want to understand relationships more then there are other sources that you could explore that will benefit you and of course help you regain more self esteem and confidence.