Want to know how to attract and get men? Of course you do that is why we are providing you with some great tips and advice to attract and get men that you want. It takes courage to really look at yourself as this is what you will be required to do, as changes are necessary to attract and get men. If you have the perception that men only want one thing well yes that is true but they also do want more, there are many men that want to be in a relationship with a woman that they have a physical, sexual and mental connection with where the relationship is loving and long lasting. Where a woman will treat them right and show them the respect that they crave and want. When a man is disrespected time after time he will lose interest in you and will move on.
How to attract men
You need to be yourself, that is that you are honest and not a wannabe someone that you are not and never will be, it is better to embrace and love who you are and always strive to make yourself a better person. Many women lament that they cannot attract men yet they do not bother about their appearance and will swear and cuss in front of men. This of course makes them appear unattractive and they wonder why men run a mile from them. So make the changes in you that need to be changed to make you a more attractive person, such as in your manners, the clothes you wear, your underwear, your makeup, your hairstyle, have a good look at yourself and make the changes starting today!
Men are attracted to women physically first, so appearance does count, and if you feel that you are overweight or too thin, then there is a man out there that will love you regardless, not all men go for model material, rather a woman that is confident, has sex appeal, has a clean, neat and tidy appearance. Can be a mischievous flirt at times, can laugh at his jokes and treat him with respect. So what changes can you make from the list we provide you of what attracts men? Men are attracted to:
- A woman that has confidence
- A woman that respects herself and others
- A woman that is happy in herself
- Sex appeal
- Flirtatious nature
- A woman that looks after her physical appearance
- Doesn’t take life too seriously
- Enjoys having good times
- Enjoys having many intimate moments
- A woman that is sensuous
- A woman that can make them laugh and captivate him
- A woman that is intelligent and is not afraid to challenge him
- A woman that will get along with his friends and family
- A woman that does not try and control him in any way.
- A woman that can show respect and appreciation
- A woman that is able to stand on her own two feet.
- A woman that is capable but will rely on him also
- A woman that is very feminine
- A woman that is there for him and not his wallet
- A woman that does not have a mean and nasty streak where she can be vindictive and very spiteful
Men do appreciate a good woman, but a good woman should also be aware that sometimes they might be with a selfish man that will not appreciate her or take advantage of her goodness. DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU! Every woman should have a backbone and stand up for herself in any relationship that she ends up in. It is pointless to tell your friends that you did this or that and you are not appreciated etc. STAND YOUR GROUND! This is very important as you need to understand that you are a great woman and if you are unappreciated then say so and tell your man if there is no change well you will not be hanging around for much longer.
Many women are afraid to stand up to a man and tell them that they are not happy with a situation, rather they will put up with it as they are afraid to lose their man. Well if you lose him he wasn’t worth keeping in the first place! It is always important in any relationship that both parties are able to respect each other and be able to communicate to each other reasonably and logically time after time. This always makes for a much healthier relationship between you both.